Difference between someone encouraging you to be strong sincerely, stopping your tears to think logically & a person who watches from afar, and then make unnecessary comments, admiting that probably it's 'heartless' to not feel a thing is just nothing but speechless act.
Feel free to cry it out I say. Because that definitely feels better than suppressing or feeling nothing.
Watch ourselves, because we dont want to be numb and become plastic. Now do we?